You are defined by your actions, and by the decisions you make. Some of them are easy, like choosing between coke or pepsi, going out to the movies or staying home, watching Sherlock Holmes or Avatar. In the end it doesn't really matter which one you choose, you'll probably enjoy it. And some of these decisions are hard, and might change your life drastically. You will be challenged trying to pick the right one. And it's only harder when there is no right and wrong. How do you decide then? How do you measure the advantages and disadvantages. You can't. But in the end, you'll have to choose one, and then live with it. And what about regret. Do you regret the things that you always wanted to do, but never did. Or do you regret the things that you've done. It's usually a mix of both.
This is a quote from " Men in Black" :
Jay: You know what they say. It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
Kay: Try it.
Kay: Try it.